How many weeks/months am I?
We measure pregnancy from the first day of your last period. There
are 40 weeks in the average pregnancy, with the assumption that you
conceived 2 weeks after your period started (you are only actually
pregnant for the last 38 of the 40 weeks). When counting in months,
start from the conception date, not the period date. So, if you are
10 weeks pregnant you got pregnant 8 weeks, or 2 months ago. If you
did not get pregnant at the average time (you ovulated earlier or later
than the 14th day), your due date will be based on the measurements
from your first ultrasound.
We also commonly talk about “trimesters” (or thirds) of the pregnancy. The
first trimester includes up to 13 weeks, the second trimester is 13-26
weeks, and the third trimester is 26 weeks until delivery.
When should I tell people that I am pregnant?
About 15% of diagnosed pregnancies end in miscarriage. The good news
is that 85% don’t. In most cases of miscarriage the embryo stops growing
before the cardiac system is developed, and we never see a heartbeat on
ultrasound. Once we see a heartbeat, the risk of miscarriage is much
lower. If the baby has a heartbeat after 8 weeks from the last
period, the risk of miscarriage is less than 5%. After 12 weeks, the
risk is less than 1%. Many patients choose to wait to tell others
about the pregnancy based on these statistics. This is a personal choice
which depends on how you would feel about others knowing that you had a
miscarriage, if this should occur.
What/how much should I eat during pregnancy?
We need an average of only 300 extra calories daily during pregnancy (one
bagel or ½ a deli sandwich). “Eating for two” will result in excessive
weight gain. Most women will lose only 15-20 pounds in the first few weeks
postpartum, with the rest stored as fat, so weight gain of 20-30 pounds
is ideal (0-5 pounds in the first 12 weeks, and ½ pound-1 pound a week after
that). Eat small frequent meals to avoid heartburn and hypoglycemia. Eat
what you enjoy, but make healthy choices and go easy on sugars and
starches to prevent excessive weight gain and gestational diabetes.
Certain fish accumulate high levels of mercury from swimming in polluted
waters. The FDA recommends avoiding those fish that are highest in
mercury, including shark, tilefish, swordfish and king mackerel. Shellfish,
shrimp and smaller fish such as snapper, catfish and salmon are lower in
mercury, and up to 12 ounces a week is recommended. Canned tuna is low
in mercury and can be included in the total of 12 ounces a week. Tuna
steak is higher in mercury than canned tuna, and should be limited to
6 ounces a week. (If you would like more information on fish in pregnancy,
go to
www.epa.gov/waterscience/fishadvice/advice.html).
Unpasteurized cheeses and deli meats can carry Listeria, a bacterium that
can cause miscarriage and fetal infection. While this is extremely uncommon
in the USA, it is wise to avoid regular intake of unpasteurized dairy products
or deli meats for this reason. Listeria is killed by high temperatures so
deli meats heated in the microwave until steaming are certainly safe. Highly
processed meats such as hotdogs contain chemicals that are not healthy for
any humans, pregnant or not. While there is no evidence of direct fetal harm
caused by eating hotdogs or other highly processed meats, we recommend making
healthier choices except on rare occasions.
Raw fish and meat can carry parasites and other microbes that could cause
potential harm to the mother and fetus. While these infections are extremely
rare, it is wise to avoid raw meat and fish for this reason.
There is no safe limit of alcohol in pregnancy. Complete avoidance is the
best policy. Caffeine is safe in small quantities (1-2 caffeinated beverages daily).
There is no scientific evidence that nutrasweet (aspartame) or other sugar substitutes
are harmful in pregnancy.
Can I exercise?
Staying active is great for you and the baby. If you have an uncomplicated
pregnancy you can continue your current exercise regimen with a few modifications. When
doing cardiovascular exercise (walking, running, biking, elliptical trainer) a good
guideline is to keep your heart rate at a maximum of about 140 beats per
minute. This will allow blood flow to go to the uterus as well as your large
muscles. If you are working out with weights, modify exercises that require
you to be flat on your back or flat on your stomach after 12 weeks. Cut out
abdominal exercises, they won’t be effective.
If you are not a regular exerciser, walk for 20-30 minutes 3-5 times a week, and
consider a prenatal yoga or pilates class (we can recommend one).
Occasionally complications such as bleeding, preterm labor or high blood pressure
will prevent you from being able to exercise, but for most women regular exercise
is a great way to prevent excessive weight gain, reduce stress, and keep the
physical strength necessary to deliver and take care of a new baby.
What about sex?
Sex is safe in pregnancy unless you have complications such as bleeding, preterm
contractions or a low-lying placenta. While sex may make you have mild
contractions, it will not make an otherwise healthy pregnant woman go into
premature labor. Unless we tell you otherwise, continue your normal sexual practices
if you want to.
Can I get my hair colored?
Hair color is absolutely safe during pregnancy. The portion of hair
that is outside of the scalp is dead tissue and does not absorb anything
into the bloodstream.
Can I paint my baby’s room?
Inhaling volatile paint fumes is not good for any human, pregnant or
not. While normal casual exposure to paint does not cause birth defects, use
good judgment if you are painting and make sure the room is well ventilated.
Can I take a bath?
Exposure to very high temperatures (more than 103 degrees F) for long periods
of time in baths, hot tubs or saunas can increase the risk of spina bifida
during the first 2 months of pregnancy. Normal temperature baths (98-101
degrees) are safe and can be very relaxing. If you are concerned, put a
thermometer in your bathtub.
Can I travel?
If you have an uncomplicated pregnancy it is safe to travel until you are
likely to go into labor. We generally recommend staying close to home
after 36 weeks, and not leaving the country in the third trimester (after
26-28 weeks) unless absolutely necessary. Flying is safe in pregnancy but
may increase your risk for blood clots, so wear support hose on long
flights and move about the cabin once an hour. With long road trips make
frequent rest stops to stretch your legs and maintain circulation.
What if I have a cat?
Outdoor cats can be exposed to Toxoplasmosis and can pass this parasite to
humans through the feces. One could acquire it by changing the litter box
of an infected cat. If your cat goes outside, have someone else change the
litter box when you are pregnant, or wear gloves and wash your hands well. If
your cat lives inside and only eats processed cat food she cannot get the
disease. Cuddling your cat is safe and will not expose you to the disease. Dogs
are not affected. Toxoplasmosis can be harmful to a developing fetus but is
very rarely seen in the USA.
Which vitamins/supplements should I take?
Folic acid is a B vitamin that has been shown to reduce the risk of spina
bifida. 1 mg (1000 micrograms) is recommended during the month prior to
pregnancy and for the first 2 months after conception to reduce this risk. More
folic acid may be recommended if you have a personal or family history of spina
bifida including a prior affected child.
A prenatal vitamin is a general multivitamin with 800-1000 micrograms of folic
acid, as well as calcium and iron. Most women continue their vitamins after
the second month to help reduce anemia and make up for any imperfections in
diet. If you are not anemic and eat a well balanced diet, stopping prenatal
vitamins at 2 months of pregnancy is acceptable.
After 12 weeks the baby begins to make bone and will draw the necessary
calcium from your bones. To prevent bone loss 1000-1500 mg of calcium is
recommended. This equates to 4-5 servings of milk, yogurt or dairy. Since
this is difficult to consume, take a calcium supplement (usually 500-600 mg) to
make up the difference. Don’t take calcium and iron (in the multivitamin) at
the same time as they can offset each other’s absorption. While calcium
citrate (“Citracal”) is the best absorbed, other types of calcium such as
fruit flavored “Tums” and “Viactiv” (chocolate flavored) may be more appealing.
If you eat fish 3 times weekly you are getting plenty of Omega-3 fatty acids, or Essential
Fatty Acids (EFAs). If not, take a supplement containing 200mg of DHA (from fish
oil or flax seed oil). There is a growing body of evidence that EFA deficiency
may contribute to a number of pregnancy complications including preterm labor and
pre-eclampsia. EFAs may help fetal eye and brain development, may improve mom’s skin,
hair and nails and are also passed into the breast milk.
What medications can I take?
Please refer to our medication list to see safe choices for medications in pregnancy. If
you need a medication that is not on the list please call us during business hours
for advice.
Do I have to lie/sleep on my left side?
When we lay on our back the large blood vessels that run close to our spine
can be compressed by the pregnant uterus. In the third trimester this can
decrease blood flow to the baby. At the same time, blood flow to your head
will be decreased and you may feel dizzy and lightheaded. While there is no
evidence that lying on your back sometimes is harmful, blood flow to the baby
will be maximized if you tilt your abdomen even slightly to the left or the
right. Assuming you have a normal healthy heart, either the right side or the
left is fine. Before the third trimester most women can lie comfortably on their
back as blood flow is not significantly affected.
Should I have the baby tested for Down’s syndrome and other diseases?
Testing your baby for disease prior to birth is a personal choice. Depending on
your age, family history and race you may be at higher risk of having a baby
with a certain disease. Caucasians are more likely than people of other races to
carry the gene for cystic fibrosis, for example. African Americans are more likely
to carry the gene for sickle cell disease, and people of European Jewish ancestry
are more likely to carry the gene for Tay Sach’s disease. Blood tests can be done
to see if you carry the genes for any of these diseases, to help establish whether
the baby may be affected.
Down’s syndrome (an extra chromosome 21) is a form of mental retardation. While
it can happen to anyone’s baby, the chance increases as the mother gets older. At
35, the risk of having a baby with Down’s syndrome or other chromosomal disorders
is about 1/200, and at 40 is about 1/50. Women who are 35 or older may opt to
have an amniocentesis (fluid is withdrawn from the amniotic sac and is tested
for the number of chromosomes) to have a definite diagnosis. Other non-invasive
tests are also available but are not 100 % accurate. These include 1st trimester
ultrasound along with a blood test for multiple markers which can detect more
than 85% of Down’s syndrome (“Ultrascreen”), and a blood test alone at 16-20
weeks that detects about 75% of Down’s syndrome (“Quadscreen”). Women of any
age may choose to do these non-invasive tests. Some patients opt not to test
at all, because the results would not change their feelings about the
pregnancy. While there is no right or wrong answer your doctor will help
you to navigate these decisions at the appropriate time.
Is ultrasound safe?
Obstetric ultrasound has been extensively studied and found to be safe for
the baby. While no fetal harm has been found, current recommendations are
to limit the use of ultrasound to that which is medically useful or
necessary. In our office this includes a quick ultrasound at most visits in
the first 20 weeks to confirm viability and establish gender, a detailed
ultrasound at 20-22 weeks to assess the baby’s anatomy in detail, and only
any medically necessary ultrasounds later in pregnancy. (Most people don’t
need another ultrasound after 20-22 weeks). Because they are not medically
useful, some people have criticized “4-D” ultrasounds, which are commonly
done at 28-32 weeks to get a picture of the baby. Since there is no
evidence of harm, we are happy to recommend a 4-D ultrasound for you.
Can I go to the dentist?
Routine dental work is safe during pregnancy and we encourage you to
keep up with your normal dental health routine. Most dentists will
require a note from us saying that the visit is safe, and we can give
you a standardized letter to take to your visit. If you need extensive
dental work we can discuss the best options for medications with your dentist.
Where will I deliver?
We deliver at Memorial Hermann Hospital in the Texas Medical Center. MHH has a
state-of-the-art labor and delivery facility and is adjacent to our offices. Anesthesia
and neonatology services are in house 24 hours a day, and all rooms are large and
private with private bathrooms. Memorial Children’s Hospital is in the same
building as labor and delivery, and has the highest level nursery including a
neonatal intensive care unit. The hospital encourages “rooming in” so that you
are not separated from your baby, and a lactation consultant is on staff to assist
you after delivery.
How do I register at the hospital and take a tour?
You can register online at
www.memorialhermann.org, or
simply walk across the street
from our offices to labor and delivery during business hours. Make sure you are
registered a month before your due date. Registration takes a few minutes, and a nurse
will usually have time to give you a quick tour. You can also schedule a formal tour by
calling (713) 222-CARE. The schedule for tours can be found at
www.memorialhermann.org (in the “classes and events” section).
When will I deliver?
Most people deliver close to their due date (40 weeks from the last period). About
10% of women deliver before 37 weeks. It is more likely that you will go over your
due date in the first pregnancy than in subsequent pregnancies. While it is
sometimes safe to go as long as 2 weeks over the due date, we generally recommend
induction at 41 weeks. If you have had a preterm (less than 37 weeks) delivery
before, you are more likely to have another preterm delivery.
If you are planning a C-section, we generally will schedule it at about 39 weeks
or 37 weeks if you have twins.
Who will deliver me?
Our doctors share a call schedule for nights and weekends. If you deliver
during the day, you own doctor will generally be there. If you deliver at night
or in the weekend, the doctor on call will be there. Our doctors do not share
call with any other doctors, so a stranger will not deliver you. You will
have an opportunity to meet the other doctors in the group before your
delivery. If you would like to be sure that your own doctor delivers you, she
may offer induction at full term (usually around 39 weeks) on a day that she
is on call.
How long will I stay in the hospital?
After an uncomplicated vaginal delivery you can stay 24-48 hours. After an
uncomplicated C-section you may be ready to leave as soon as 48 hours, or
as long as 96 hours. We see most of our patients 2 weeks after a C-section
and 6 weeks after a vaginal delivery.
Who will my baby’s doctor be?
You will need a pediatrician with privileges at Memorial Hermann to see your
baby before discharge. If you do not have one already we will recommend some
excellent doctors for you to consider (look at the online form called “referral
list”). Some patients like to meet and interview the doctor before delivery, or
you may be comfortable meeting the doctor when he/she comes to see your baby
in the hospital. After discharge, the first visits with the pediatrician are
usually at 2 weeks of life, and you can make this appointment as soon as the
baby is born.
Should I take a childbirth class?
If this is your first baby you may want to take a childbirth class. While this
is not required it may help you to be more comfortable about what to expect. Most
people take a class in the last 2-3 months of pregnancy. The hospital has a very
good basic childbirth class that you can schedule by calling (713) 222-CARE. The
class schedule is available at
www.memorialhermann.org (in
the “classes and events” section, look for “prepared childbirth” classes).
Should I get an epidural?
This is a personal choice, but in our practice the great majority of patients
do opt for an epidural. Epidurals are a very safe and effective means of controlling
the pain associated with childbirth. Complications from an epidural are extremely
rare and often easily corrected (such as a severe headache). You do not have to
make any arrangements for an epidural prior to your delivery day. Anesthesiologists
are available 24 hours a day to help you whenever you request their services.
Do I need a birth plan?
Some patients like to write a “wish list” of events that they hope to happen at the
birth of their baby. While forming a written birth plan is optional, we generally
do not recommend it. Instead we feel that it is important to discuss your wishes
with your physician so that she can make the other doctors in the practice aware
if you have special requests, and to convey your wishes to the nursing staff at
the hospital. We do our best to adhere to your plan within the boundaries of
safety, knowing that the labor process is very dynamic and unpredictable, and
unplanned events happen frequently. An important part of forming a birth plan is
accepting that it may change, and allowing your doctor to make the best decisions
for you and your baby at all times during the labor process.
What is my doctor’s C-section rate?
We pride ourselves on having a lower C-section rate than the national average of
30%, and think it is largely because we believe that patience is of the utmost
importance when managing labor, and that each woman labors at her own speed. We do
not place rigorous time limits on your labor and make all safe, reasonable efforts
to avoid unnecessary C-sections. Our overall C-section rate is about 25%, with
the majority of these deliveries representing repeat C-sections. If this is
your first baby, your chance of C-section is only about 10%. In our practice, if
your first pregnancy results in a C-section, there was no safe alternative.
Can I deliver vaginally after a C-section?
Vaginal birth after C-section (VBAC) is not offered in our practice. There is a
1% risk that when a mother is in labor with a C-section scar on the uterus, the
scar could open up and expel the baby and the placenta into the mother’s abdomen.
This is called a uterine rupture and is a catastrophic emergency which can
result in the death or permanent disability of the baby, as well as serious
complications for the mother including severe blood loss and hysterectomy. As
mothers ourselves we believe that a 1% risk is too high when it comes to a baby’s
safety. After all, we go to enormous lengths to prevent much rarer events such as
injury in a car accident (using car seats) or exposure to life threatening
illnesses (getting vaccinations), for example.
Will I get induced?
We cannot predict when a patient will have a medical need to be induced, such as
high blood pressure, poor fetal growth, low amniotic fluid, or being more than a
week past your due date. Your doctor will explain in detail why induction of labor
is necessary if this should occur. The decision to induce labor is the result of a
complex set of decisions, the end-point of which is that the mother’s and/or baby’s
health will be better with the baby on the outside than the inside.
If we recommend
a medically necessary induction we expect your full cooperation even if induction
was not your desire.
Some patients may choose an “elective” induction which is not medically necessary
but is timed to provide convenience for family members, work schedules, or to
coincide with your doctor’s schedule. Elective inductions are scheduled at around 39 weeks.
Will I have an episiotomy?
There is no evidence that routine episiotomies are beneficial, and we try to
avoid them. At times your doctor may decide that it is safer to make a small
episiotomy than to risk a large tear, but this decision is not made until the
baby’s head is partially delivered. There are variable factors that we cannot
control including the size of the baby and your body’s ability to stretch, which
ultimately affect your ability to deliver without an episiotomy. It is less
likely that you will have an episiotomy with each successive pregnancy.
Should I have my baby boy circumcised?
The American Academy of Pediatrics does not recommend circumcision for any medical
reason. Still, many couples opt to have their baby boy circumcised for religious, cultural
or cosmetic reasons. If you decide to have your baby circumcised our doctors perform the
procedure with local anesthesia, usually on the day after birth.
Should I collect my baby’s cord blood?
Blood from your baby’s umbilical cord contains stem cells, which may be collected
and stored after the baby’s birth. Stem cells have numerous current and possible
future medical uses that warrant consideration. At present there is no public
banking system but you can pay a private company to store it for you. If you are
interested in cord blood collection, visit the websites of Cord Blood
Registry (
www.cordblood.com) and Viacord (
www.viacord.com) to learn
more. We can give you the necessary collection kits in our office if you
decide to proceed.
How do I prepare for breastfeeding?
In our experience the best breastfeeding class comes when you have your baby
in your arms. While physically preparing the breasts is unnecessary, you may
want to mentally prepare by taking a breastfeeding class, which can be scheduled
through (713) 222-CARE. Most of our patients have found that the lactation
consultant in the hospital can get you off to a good start without any other
preparation. If you need help after the baby is born we can recommend a lactation
consultant which can be arranged at home or at a location such as The Motherhood
Center or a woman’s work. Information can be found at their websites at
www.motherhoodcenter.com or
www.awomanswork.com. Also, our doctors have
a “standing prescription” at a woman’s work which will allow you to purchase
some breastfeeding supplies tax-free.
When should I call the doctor? How do I contact my doctor in an emergency?
If you have a true emergency that cannot wait until the office reopens (if you
are in labor, for example) our office number will prompt you to connect to
an operator who will page the doctor on call. While we are always available in
emergencies, we ask you to use your judgment and not disturb the doctors after
hours with matters that can be dealt with the next business day.
Examples of reasons to call the emergency line (24 hours) in the first and
second trimester include vaginal bleeding that is more than spotting, persistent
cramping, any severe pain, fever higher than 101.0 F, or vomiting that is
preventing fluid intake for more than 24 hours.
Examples of reasons to call the emergency line (24 hours) in the third trimester
include leaking amniotic fluid (a persistent trickle or gush of watery fluid), vaginal
bleeding that is more than spotting, decreased or absent fetal movement (at
rest, you should feel at least 4 small movements in an hour), or regular,
painful contractions. If you are 36 weeks or more, you have not had a
C-section before, and your doctor is planning a vaginal delivery, call us
when your contractions have been 5 minutes apart or less for at least an
hour. If you are worried or not sure if you are in labor, it is always best
to call. If you feel that you need to go to the hospital at any time, please
call us first so that the doctor on call can advise you and let the hospital
know that you are coming.
How does my insurance work?
Since every insurance plan is different, it is important that you understand
the way your policy works. Before your first visit our staff will check on
your benefits and will be able to explain this to you when you arrive. Most
insurance companies pay us for the prenatal care (about 13 visits) as well
as the delivery in one lump sum after you deliver. Usually you will have one
co-pay for the whole package (the “global fee”). If you have visits that are
not related to normal prenatal care, these will be additional charges to your
insurance and will have additional co-pays. Tests such as ultrasounds are
billed separately and have separate co-pays. Most policies have a deductible
or patient portion that you will be asked to pay before you deliver. The hospital
will bill your insurance separately, as will other doctors at the hospital
including the anesthesiologist and pediatrician. We have a lab in our office
but this is an independent business entity that will bill your insurance separately.
Remember that your doctors are medical experts, not insurance experts. Please
direct your insurance and billing questions to the front desk staff, not to your doctor.
What can I expect at my appointments?
If you have a normal pregnancy your scheduled visits will be monthly until 30
weeks, then every 2 weeks until 36 weeks, then weekly until delivery. At each
visit we will record your weight and blood pressure, check your urine, listen
to the baby’s heartbeat and assess the baby’s growth.
Drs. Hardwick-Smith and Jurney have Nurse Practitioners who are advanced level
nurses with Masters Degrees in Women’s Health and many years of experience in
obstetrics. The Nurse Practitioner will see you at your first visit to perform a
thorough health assessment, gather information and perform an initial ultrasound. She
may also see you at several visits during the pregnancy and at times when your
doctor is unavailable or is running late. Some appointments will include specific
events as follows:
1st visit- 6-12 weeks from last period: A pelvic exam and pap smear will be done
as well as tests for vaginal infection. A standard panel of blood tests will be
done to check your blood type, blood count, immunity to Rubella, as well as tests
for exposure to HIV, hepatitis and syphilis. An ultrasound will be done to confirm
your due date and check for viability. First trimester screening for Down’s
syndrome and other chromosomal abnormalities (“Ultrascreen”) will be offered. Other
necessary tests based on your individual health assessment will be done.
2nd visit- Another ultrasound may be performed to confirm viability.
16-20 weeks from last period. Another quick ultrasound may be performed to see
the sex of your baby, if you want to know. An alpha-fetoprotein (AFP) test for
spina bifida will be offered. If you are having an amniocentesis it will be scheduled
at about 16 weeks. A detailed ultrasound of the baby’s anatomy will be scheduled
as a separate appointment between 20-22 weeks.
24-28 weeks- testing for gestational diabetes will be done. You will be given a
sweet drink and your blood will be drawn an hour later to screen for diabetes. If
your first test is high you will be asked to do a second test that takes 3 hours. If
your blood type is RH negative you will receive a shot of Rhogam at about 28 weeks. At
this time we will begin reminding you to register at the hospital, sign up for a
childbirth class if desired, choose a pediatrician, and consider issues such as cord
blood banking and circumcision.
36-40 weeks- testing for GBS (group B strep) will be done with a vaginal/anal swab. GBS
is a harmless bacterium that many people carry without symptoms, but can rarely lead
to a serious neonatal infection. If you are a carrier we will give you antibiotics when
you are in labor to prevent neonatal infection. Your cervix will be checked weekly for
dilation and effacement, and to make sure the baby’s head is down. If you haven’t
met all the doctors in the practice, you will be given an opportunity to do this before
you deliver if you wish to.
We do our best to be on time but occasionally the doctors are delayed at the hospital
with deliveries or surgery. Bring a book to your appointments, as we cannot predict
when this may happen. We will do your best to inform you of the delay, if there is
one. If you have no problems sometimes it may suffice to see the nurse or nurse
practitioner, who can relay any questions to your doctor when she returns.
Where do the beautiful baby pictures in our waiting room and hallways come from?
These photographs are by Kristi Zontini with Bellababies Photography
at
www.bellababiesphotography.com. Bellababies specializes in photographing
pregnant mothers, babies, children, and families and has become the personal
family photographer of many of our patients as well as our doctors.
What if I have other questions?
Since you are seen frequently, write your questions down and bring them to
your next appointment. If you have more urgent questions, leave a message
with your doctor’s nurse and you will get a reply by the end of the business day.
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